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Hey Guys

March 25, 2011 in Announcements by Steve P | 1 comment

Some of you may have noticed the blog was down for a few days.

We had some technical problems but they’re fixed now.

Enjoy,

Steve P

Happy Holidays

December 24, 2010 in Announcements by Steve P | 2 comments

Just wanted to take a moment out of this busy holiday season to wish all of our readers on the blog a happy holidays.

Best

Steve P

Question From T.B.

July 27, 2010 in Questions by Steve P | No comments

Hubby and I bought WTT dvd set , recieved last april. I was hiiighly sceptic, being 42, never having felt anything but a clit-orgasms and having “no” sensation in my vagina..

But, as you know, I learned that I have both A- ang G-spot that just needed to be invited to wake up :-) Was 100% sceptic to ejaculation ability, but was proven wrong again… now have to use like 1-2 big bathroom towels every time…

My “problem” is that I feel nothing that equals to my interpretation/ experience as being orgasms with this. I have crazy good burning sensation on both A- and G- spots (especially A.. OMG..) and get a downward pressing urge, which i find compatible with squirting.. My eyes are filled with fluid, tears running. But never, so far, anything that is even close to a classic clit-orgasm.. no contractions of PC-muscles or anything like that. So, are the A-and G-spot orgasms different from the clit-orgasms or am I just not “there” yet??? In all literature I’ve seen so far (and I’ve tried finding books and net-sites) it’s always described as contractions in the PC-muscles (espesially anal part, right?) This makes me “fear” am not doing it right.. I have allergy against feeling being wrongly put together.. LOL

Yes, we’ve done the massages and done the whole thing by “the book”..

Possible interesting information:
During last labour, summer 1999, I was badly hurt (huge pressure on iliosacral nervebundle for one hour with few minutes off inbetween) , was paralized in pelvic floor and right leg for months, still suffering from that now and then even though my kegels have been sufficient to make me hold in small metal balls jumping around in the room. .. Now I wonder if that “lack of orgasm” from A- and G-spots are because of that… my mind gets going…

Hope to hear from you.. Grateful if you have time to reassure a troubled mind LOL

T.B. :-)

Steve’s Answer

First of all, there are no wrong ways of having orgasms.

There are only better ways of having orgasms.

Clitoral orgasms, since these are the first ones learned, are also referred to as adolescent orgasms. Vaginal orgasms are the next natural state of orgasms. Full body orgasms are the ‘adult dose’ of orgasms. And sustained multiple orgasms… well those are the crown jewels that all women desire to posess.

Back to your answer.

It sounds to me like you still have unsmooth muscle texture on the inner vagina. All spasms and trigger points need to be resolved out of inner vaginal muscle area to allow blood and nitric oxide to flow and create vasodilation, otherwise known as engorgement, in the genitals.

This creates an increased flow of nitric oxide in the blood. When this happens all the nerve fibers on the inner and outer vagina can be connected.

Remember in the sensual enhancement massage, on the outside of the shaved vagina, we do a massage technique that is quite similar to what is known as “skin rolling” to help remove spasms and other tension points on the exterior of the vagina.

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Vibrator Use Weakens Full Body Orgasms

May 10, 2010 in Articles by Steve P | 2 comments

In the hundreds of women I’ve worked with who choose to regularly use vibrators during sex and masturbation, it takes 5 to 8 times more work to awaken them to be able to experience full body orgasms. And for those women who I’ve noticed return to using vibrators, their ability to experience full body orgasms quickly diminish from under 7 minutes to not at all.

The vibrator was developed as a medical tool to relieve women of hysteria. Although it has been a tool to help women reach orgasm for over 100 years, little attention has been paid to what, if any, effects prolonged use can have on the nerve endings in and around the vagina. Research in the 80′s into the use of vibration as a desensitizing method to treat traumatic hand injuries shows that a single session of 10 minutes with a vibrator will decrease sensitivity to touch and heat for an equal amount of time after removing the vibrator.

Vibrator

14% of women report never cleaning their vibrators.

Scientific research in the personal use of a vibrator as a sex toy is lacking. A 1976 survey reported a 1% use by females, a 1996 survey reported 19% of Swiss women between the ages 18-74 used vibrators, more recently a 2009 survey found just under half of respondents reported using a vibrator at some point. The 2009 survey by Drs. Michael Reece and Debra Herbenick also found that 28.5% of women also reported side effects of vibrator use ranging from numbness to tears or cuts.

So does this mean that more and more women are using vibrators or are they just more open about their use? Who knows. It may be years before sex researchers are able to conclusively show one way or another what affect vibrator use is having. So where does that leave us? Some sex experts, like Dr. Frank Sommers, caution against the use of vibrators not because they ‘desensitize’ but because they train the body to only be able to orgasm through a level of stimulus that no human (man or woman) can recreate.

Let’s face it, it may be years before we have the facts on whether or not vibrator use can cause desensitization or any other form of impairment. From my own experience, I can say that I’ve worked with hundreds of women who had not only experienced numbness but had also been unable to form strong relationship bonds with men and women because of their use of vibrators. Some of these women had gone so far as to name their vibrators and even celebrate their anniversary once a year. And while most questions regarding desensitization concern the woman’s clitoris, the other major nerve bundles inside the vagina (the A-spots, G-spot, U-spot, and SRP) are just about never mentioned. Further, I’ve yet to meet a woman who could achieve the level of full body orgasm that White Tiger Tantra achieves with her vibrator.

In the end, it all boils down to what sort of relationship do you want? The vibrator can be effective as a means of showing a woman that it is possible to experience orgasm. And if building emotional bonds with an inanimate object works better for you than bonding with another human, that’s great. But the practice of White Tiger Tantra requires that vibrators are set aside while the woman and her partner(s) work to help her develop the ability of experiencing the heightened states of sensual pleasure and full body orgasm that all women’s bodies are designed to achieve.

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