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Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the external female genitals (the vagina) and it’s regarded as the symbol of Shakti. Back in 2005, I released a five DVD set home study course on how to release multiple orgasms with yoni massage.

Since then thousands of sexually frustrated women have contacted us for sexual advice. Many women expressed their sexual frustrations over the short —2 to 4 second— orgasms they released.

Yet many other sexually frustrated women believed they couldn’t release any kind of orgasms at all.

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These women believed that something inside of them was broken.

In repeated discussions with women a consistent pattern emerged. Many women felt totally cheated and sexually frustrated by not being able to experience the powerful yoni multiple orgasms.

However, to further compound their sexual frustration many women turned to the Internet and found articles about women who couldn’t experience yoni orgasms.

That reinforced their limiting belief they had something physically wrong with them “Down There.”

These women just became more stressed and got stuck in between misinformation and over thinking their situation.

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Sexually Frustrated Women Helped With Multiple Orgasms

We’ve personally helped hundreds of sexually frustrated women from all around the world discover how their situation was not a sexual curse from the Lords of Karma.

We found it was more about self-imposed stress and a lack of their mind-body-yoni connection.

Some women we’ve worked with wanted to share their personal success stories of going from sexual frustration to sensual elation. Sometime soon we’ll publish the contributed journal entries on our White Tiger Tantra Blog, under “Sensual Awakening Journals.”

Consequently, the more we helped sexually frustrated women with yoni massage and multiple orgasms; the more women also discovered the stress relief from their mind-body-yoni orgasm connection.

This also helped relieve their sexual frustrations.

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Discover Multiple Orgasm Benefits

Prior to our publishing the home study yoni massage course, we only shared these techniques with women who were our coaching clients or my girlfriends who desired to explore the arts of Sacred Sensuality.

Here’s the deal…

When women worry about whether they could have a yoni multiple orgasms or not have any orgasms… it triggered a stress feedback loop.

That in turn activated a stress chemical response of cortisol and adrenaline.

In times of danger, this neurochemical response is meant to protect you.

Stress inhibits a woman’s ability to have any orgasms.

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Our solution, have women experience our White Tiger Tantra Yoni Multiple Orgasms.

These multiple orgasms release endorphins and oxytocin — a neurological pleasure cocktail that counteracts and resets the stress response chemicals cortisol and adrenaline.

When women experience yoni massage orgasms they also discover how much longer and stronger these multiple orgasms can be.

These powerful multiple orgasms also give women an afterglow that can last for days.

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Sexually Frustrated? Awaken Dormant Sacred Sensual Areas in your Body

Before we introduce women to yoni massage or multiple orgasms, we encourage them to first awaken dormant sacred sensual areas in their bodies.

We suggest they explore how to awaken and balance the connection between the Three Sensual Centers.

For years, these advanced techniques were only shared with our private coaching clients. Many women use these meditations to improve their personal life by alleviating stress in their life.

The first rule to improve your multiple orgasms is to just have fun and enjoy the process.

Any other goals can cause undue stress or put you under pressure to perform. Either one of those mental activities can cause you to release an adrenaline or cortisol spike.

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That is counterproductive for awakening and releasing powerful multiple orgasms.

This reminds me of a very polite sexually frustrated client who flew in from Amsterdam.

This attractive woman, in her late 30’s, taught yoga and had a fairly active lifestyle. However, in her intimate life, both she and her lovers consistently put pressure on her to have orgasms.

She began to question if she was “physically broken” down there. In desperation, she reached out to us and set up an interview and Skype session.

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Woman Has Over 40 Multiple Orgasms in Her First Session

During the interview, I recognized a familiar pattern that many women have described to us. She had put pressure on herself to have sex with the goal of reaching climax for her lover.

When I suggested that perhaps her problem wasn’t physical and instead might just be stress related, tears welled up in her eyes as she asked “Do you think there is hope for me?”

I agreed to work with her on a couple of conditions.

The first thing we had to agree upon about resolving her sexual frustration was that we were going to establish a goal of having no goals.

Next, if she had an orgasm while practicing the White Tiger Tantra Meditations, she was only to consider it as a bonus.

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Second thing, she would need to practice how to awaken and balance the connection between the Three Sensual Centers, her Mind-Body-Yoni multiple orgasm connection.

She would need to practice the meditation and journal about it at least twice a day.

Third, she would need to purchase and practice our White Tiger Tantra self-massage meditation— Warming The Kettle— a minimum of twice a day.

Then she would need to journal briefly about her experience and email it to me after she completed each meditation.

After she agreed to my conditions, I asked if she wanted me to guide her through a short sensual meditation that I designed. The meditation helps to balance a spiritual connection between the mind, the heart, and yoni by opening a person to their sensual centers.

Sensual Shamans believe that if one of these sacred centers is out of balance it will lead to other areas of your life being out of balance as well.

I mentioned for the first week or two she might want to just do the Balancing the Three Sensual Centers Meditation and write her journals and email them to me. Then she could add the Warming The Kettle meditation to the routine she had set up.

Sexually Frustrated?

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Balance Your Three Sensual Centers

*Do this meditation and feel instant relief from sexual frustration, at a time when you can take time for yourself, in a safe, comfortable place where you won’t be disturbed.

Here are the Steps To Relieving Sexual Frustration by Balancing your Three Sensual Centers…

Close your eyes, clench your butt cheeks, and curl your toes up.

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Next you’re going to breath in four sets of four breaths.

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  • As you take these breaths in… breathe deeply and rhythmically into the area located three fingers below your navel. This is called deep rhythmic breathing.
  • Place your three middle fingers right under your navel.
  • Place the three fingers on your other hand directly under these fingers. Now just imagine that you’re breathing rhythmically into this area.

Each time you inhale increase the rhythm of your breath.

  • Do the first three sets of the four breaths with your eyes closed and your butt cheeks clenched and CURL your toes UP.

Remember to increase the rhythm of your breath as you do the last set of four breaths.

  • Keep your eyes closed and your butt cheeks clenched tight as you CURL your toes DOWN.

After you’ve exhaled the fourth breath, keep your eyes closed and relax your toes and your butt cheeks.

  • Perhaps as you feel a new sensation of calmness flowing through your body and mind. Remember to breathe (slowly).
  • If you’d like to increase the flow of some other pleasant neurochemicals, do these next optional steps.

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Keep your eyes closed as you gently flare your nostrils.

  • Do four sets of four nostril flares. After you’ve completed this exercise. Take a tour of your body and notice the new sensations.

You are going to give yourself a breast massage.

  • This should be done with 4 more sets of deep rhythmic breathing.
  • Take one hand and stick it under the natural breast line at the bottom of your breast.
  • With the other hand take your index finger and middle finger and make circular motions around your areola.
  • After you complete 1 set of rhythmic breaths, do the massage on your other breast with another set of 4 rhythmic breaths.
  • Alternate until you have done 2 sets on each breast.

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*Practicing this breast massage meditation with the deep rhythmic breathing can help you release endorphins and oxytocin. This in turn, can help you naturally counteract the stress neurochemicals adrenaline and cortisol.

*The more you practice this breast massage meditation the more you’ll create a body-mind connection that can rapidly mitigate stress.

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Some of you may have noticed the blog was down for a few days.

We had some technical problems but they’re fixed now.

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Steve P

Happy Holidays

Just wanted to take a moment out of this busy holiday season to wish all of our readers on the blog a happy holidays.

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Hubby and I bought WTT dvd set , recieved last april. I was hiiighly sceptic, being 42, never having felt anything but a clit-orgasms and having “no” sensation in my vagina..

But, as you know, I learned that I have both A- ang G-spot that just needed to be invited to wake up :-) Was 100% sceptic to ejaculation ability, but was proven wrong again… now have to use like 1-2 big bathroom towels every time…

My “problem” is that I feel nothing that equals to my interpretation/ experience as being orgasms with this. I have crazy good burning sensation on both A- and G- spots (especially A.. OMG..) and get a downward pressing urge, which i find compatible with squirting.. My eyes are filled with fluid, tears running. But never, so far, anything that is even close to a classic clit-orgasm.. no contractions of PC-muscles or anything like that. So, are the A-and G-spot orgasms different from the clit-orgasms or am I just not “there” yet??? In all literature I’ve seen so far (and I’ve tried finding books and net-sites) it’s always described as contractions in the PC-muscles (espesially anal part, right?) This makes me “fear” am not doing it right.. I have allergy against feeling being wrongly put together.. LOL

Yes, we’ve done the massages and done the whole thing by “the book”..

Possible interesting information:
During last labour, summer 1999, I was badly hurt (huge pressure on iliosacral nervebundle for one hour with few minutes off inbetween) , was paralized in pelvic floor and right leg for months, still suffering from that now and then even though my kegels have been sufficient to make me hold in small metal balls jumping around in the room. .. Now I wonder if that “lack of orgasm” from A- and G-spots are because of that… my mind gets going…

Hope to hear from you.. Grateful if you have time to reassure a troubled mind LOL

T.B. :-)

Steve’s Answer

First of all, there are no wrong ways of having orgasms.

There are only better ways of having orgasms.

Clitoral orgasms, since these are the first ones learned, are also referred to as adolescent orgasms. Vaginal orgasms are the next natural state of orgasms. Full body orgasms are the ‘adult dose’ of orgasms. And sustained multiple orgasms… well those are the crown jewels that all women desire to posess.

Back to your answer.

It sounds to me like you still have unsmooth muscle texture on the inner vagina. All spasms and trigger points need to be resolved out of inner vaginal muscle area to allow blood and nitric oxide to flow and create vasodilation, otherwise known as engorgement, in the genitals.

This creates an increased flow of nitric oxide in the blood. When this happens all the nerve fibers on the inner and outer vagina can be connected.

Remember in the sensual enhancement massage, on the outside of the shaved vagina, we do a massage technique that is quite similar to what is known as “skin rolling” to help remove spasms and other tension points on the exterior of the vagina.

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In the hundreds of women I’ve worked with who choose to regularly use vibrators during sex and masturbation, it takes 5 to 8 times more work to awaken them to be able to experience full body orgasms. And for those women who I’ve noticed return to using vibrators, their ability to experience full body orgasms quickly diminish from under 7 minutes to not at all.

The vibrator was developed as a medical tool to relieve women of hysteria. Although it has been a tool to help women reach orgasm for over 100 years, little attention has been paid to what, if any, effects prolonged use can have on the nerve endings in and around the vagina. Research in the 80’s into the use of vibration as a desensitizing method to treat traumatic hand injuries shows that a single session of 10 minutes with a vibrator will decrease sensitivity to touch and heat for an equal amount of time after removing the vibrator.

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14% of women report never cleaning their vibrators.

Scientific research in the personal use of a vibrator as a sex toy is lacking. A 1976 survey reported a 1% use by females, a 1996 survey reported 19% of Swiss women between the ages 18-74 used vibrators, more recently a 2009 survey found just under half of respondents reported using a vibrator at some point. The 2009 survey by Drs. Michael Reece and Debra Herbenick also found that 28.5% of women also reported side effects of vibrator use ranging from numbness to tears or cuts.

So does this mean that more and more women are using vibrators or are they just more open about their use? Who knows. It may be years before sex researchers are able to conclusively show one way or another what affect vibrator use is having. So where does that leave us? Some sex experts, like Dr. Frank Sommers, caution against the use of vibrators not because they ‘desensitize’ but because they train the body to only be able to orgasm through a level of stimulus that no human (man or woman) can recreate.

Let’s face it, it may be years before we have the facts on whether or not vibrator use can cause desensitization or any other form of impairment. From my own experience, I can say that I’ve worked with hundreds of women who had not only experienced numbness but had also been unable to form strong relationship bonds with men and women because of their use of vibrators. Some of these women had gone so far as to name their vibrators and even celebrate their anniversary once a year. And while most questions regarding desensitization concern the woman’s clitoris, the other major nerve bundles inside the vagina (the A-spots, G-spot, U-spot, and SRP) are just about never mentioned. Further, I’ve yet to meet a woman who could achieve the level of full body orgasm that White Tiger Tantra achieves with her vibrator.

In the end, it all boils down to what sort of relationship do you want? The vibrator can be effective as a means of showing a woman that it is possible to experience orgasm. And if building emotional bonds with an inanimate object works better for you than bonding with another human, that’s great. But the practice of White Tiger Tantra requires that vibrators are set aside while the woman and her partner(s) work to help her develop the ability of experiencing the heightened states of sensual pleasure and full body orgasm that all women’s bodies are designed to achieve.

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